QUOTE(ruth @ Apr 2 2010, 08:04 PM)

I love this thread. Please, yes, do post any new projects! And I love the method of learning Photoshop---have a project in mind and try to make it. That is pretty much how I learned, although it was for work and all the tools were on a need-to-know-basis. It's such a massive program I am sure there is about half of I still don't know how to use. Such as paths.
Oh, paths are really important. I think this entire class was using paths every week.
We did have to join a site called "lynda.com" that is basically a site for learning photoshop and other graphic design programs. It's not cheap, but she got us a student discount for this quarter. Mine runs out tomorrow, so I'm trying to "snag" as many of the tutorials as I can tonight. LOL
If I can snag a bunch, I was thinking about uploading them somewhere that DeeDee (and you, too if you want) could see them. Gimme a little time on that.
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Phyllis what you were saying about hesitations in showing one's work to family--or anyone you are uncertain if they are going to 'get it'...you summed it up just so. I feel that way about projects, or even about talking about him. You just don't know what the reception is going to be.
Exactly. I'm that way with my drawing, photography, photoshop, etc . . . I'm a little that way about my singing. But I'm not that way about my writing as much, because I'm more confident in that area.
It's funny, in the work place, I could be doing a proposal or something businesslike, and I don't mind people criticizing. But my soul is not attached to that kind of stuff.
I used to be really scared when I started school, because every week, your work gets put up in front of the class and critiqued by everyone and the professor. But then, it doesn't bother me anymore, because I've had good professors that really aren't ripping things apart. They're saying . . . "I think this bothers me." or "I think it could use this or that." or . . . "It needs . . . "
Which is good, because usually you know it needs something, but aren't sure what?
But I also know they're there to help me make it better. And as another photographer or artist, they have some sort of relation in that the've been there. It's different from showing it to someone who has no connect, whatsoever. People with no connection to it have the ability to cut your soul without even "getting" how personal it is.
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Kind of OT but kind of not, I met a new friend at a class the other day and we went out, and were talking about how we came to know the friends in our lives. I talked about meeting people online, on message boards, something she had never tried. She asked, what kind of message boards? I said, Oh, you know, like if you are fan of something there would be a message board about that thing...and then I took a chance and told her I had met some people on a Heath Ledger fan message board.
To my delight she said: Oh I would be interested in THAT no doubt! She went on to talk about what a wonderful person he was, how she loved his perspective on things...I just about did a double take. Chance meeting with another lover of Heath. Loved it! You just never know, do you?
LOL That's wonderful. I know! It's like he's brought people together in their feelings of loss for him. The thing is, 6 or 7 years ago, I thought it was weird to meet people online. I mean, c'mon! And it had that "connotation" and stereotype of being something creepy.

I can attest that it definitely CAN be that.
But on the other hand, my best friends are the ones I've met right here. And the ones I've clicked with, some of us have gone on to meet each other, travel with each other, etc... and keep in contact regularly. I'm cautious about whom I let in that way, but sometimes you just know it clicks, you know?
It's a gamble when you do it, and the first time . . . I was like "ummmm..." It's true, there are complete posers out there who are pretending to be something else, and OMG, there are those who are completely psychotic.

But sometimes, I think you can actually get a better "feel" for someone if you post with them a lot, or get to know them online, because when they can start out anonymous, people feel more comfortable letting their guard down and really being themselves without being judged by those close to them. You start out "knowing" them that way, without any pre-conceived notions.