QUOTE(Patton @ Jun 29 2009, 08:49 PM)

Of course it is completely up to you. But then if Michelle comes out and denies it? We go on and on and on and on.
She won't. And we're not going to hash it over. Definitely not.
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If Heath had wanted it discussed..he probably would have told the press himself.
You're right. Heath did not want it discussed. But neither did he anticipate not being here and having his legacy slandered and no one defending him. This isn't something that he can correct later.
My decision will come when I read it.
But if his close friends have decided it's time to defend him, maybe it's time. And maybe it would do him a service if his side is heard.QUOTE(LilB79 @ Jun 29 2009, 08:55 PM)

I do understand why you don't want to post the things about Michelle and Heath but you could edit them things out IMO.
I often do.
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Vanity Fair is not one of those gossip papers I read it regularly.
Agreed.
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I'm sorry to say that but it seems like one really has to be careful what to post here..... I've read the rules and guidelines by the way.
On occasion I take a lot of heat for it, but I am completely unapologetic about it, and the rules are non-negotiable.
I go by what I would want discussed if he were my brother, best friend, family member, lover, etc... Because those people are here, LilB. Maybe they don't come often, and they have only rarely posted. But they are here. Would you say it to their face? If not, it's not on HH.
To discuss Heath's private life and bandy about his personal business, there are plenty of other boards that allow it. But I once made a promise to him. And I'm still keeping it.
QUOTE(ruth @ Jun 29 2009, 10:11 PM)

God I wish none of this had ever happened, going all the way back to Brokeback. Guess it's pointless though. I am so sickened by this starting up all over again. As badly as the record needs to get straight, this could turn into a really seriously ugly public battle with Heath in the middle and he not being here to defend himself. It just...I feel so sick.
I know. But now, he's got others finally defending him. They've mourned, and are still grieving, but now are strong enough and ready to come out and set the record straight.
I dunno . . . it seems unsavory in a sense, but also, maybe it's about time. I don't think the people listed in this article would say anything without his family knowing they were going to speak. For all we know, it is the family's way of addressing things.
This is turning into one giant discussion about rules and my decisions. Not only that, but I'm not sure the article needs discussion. I was tentative about leaving this thread open to begin with, but I think I'm going to shut it down.
I may post the article when I read it. But I probably won't open a discussion thread on it.